Spencer is one year old today! Happy Birthday to You!


This is actually from last January when he was about 7 months old, but gives you a pretty good idea how much big Spence is enjoying this "life" thing. Lynn and I have no more idea what we're doing than we did a year ago at this time, but we muddle through and make sure that no matter what, Spencer knows how much he is loved. Being a parent really teaches you that no parent ever really knows what they're doing, including your own, and that's an important psychological step for any child to take, at any age, in reconciling themselves to the stormier aspects of the relationship they may have had with one or both parents.

Spencer is a miracle; we learn from him every day. Physically demanding for a (now) 47-year-old first-time father, but getting to play with blocks again makes it all worth it. Your mommy and daddy love you with all their heart, Spencer. It has been an incredible year. Let's kick this second year off in style, buddy.